friendshipping
Feb. 25th, 2022 01:46 pmI'm listening to an older podcast called Friendshipping and most of the time it's a friendship advice show but they occasionally have fandom discussions. That's what's happening right now and they're gushing about The Force Awakens, their ships (Poe+Rey+Finn), and how much they're looking forward to The Last Jedi and I'm like 😬😬😬....so yeah, going to see how that goes in the future episodes. It's a trip to listen to podcast episodes from 2017 & 2018....before, you know, everything.
Overall though I find the show incredibly helpful as I've been navigating the loss of an important friendship that had been disintegrating throughout 2021. The advice has been reassuring and I'm learning to recognize boundary needs, communication issues, and stuck mindsets. However it's annoying to be learning these things at my age, as I keep thinking "Why didn't I know this sooner? It would have helped so much!" but I have remind myself I didn't have access to tools like this when I was younger and the majority of adults I knew did not have healthy relationships so there wasn't an opportunity to learn these skills. At least I'm learning now so hopefully present & future me will do better.
Overall though I find the show incredibly helpful as I've been navigating the loss of an important friendship that had been disintegrating throughout 2021. The advice has been reassuring and I'm learning to recognize boundary needs, communication issues, and stuck mindsets. However it's annoying to be learning these things at my age, as I keep thinking "Why didn't I know this sooner? It would have helped so much!" but I have remind myself I didn't have access to tools like this when I was younger and the majority of adults I knew did not have healthy relationships so there wasn't an opportunity to learn these skills. At least I'm learning now so hopefully present & future me will do better.